my discoveries while raising no. 3
There are SO many baby carriers out there and if you don’t know what is what and for what stage of babyhood, it’s hard to know which to buy (or put on your baby registry). What worked for me was:
Our neighbors have to put in their earplugs from 7-10 pm every night, because Cole has been “exercising his lungs.” He has been having colic in the evenings. He wants to nurse, but he gets mad when the milk comes out, fidgeting, sputtering and crying. It’s an, “I’m in pain!” cry—you the type. Nothing consoles him—not standing, rocking, swaddling and he’s uncomfortable in any position. Last Saturday I stumbled upon these homeopathic drops for colic. It comes in these sterile single dose vials, like refresh eye drops. When Cole is in one of his fits and nothing is working to soothe him, I’ll drop one of these into his open (crying) mouth once every 15 minutes. The most I’ll give is 3 in a night. It seems to work—helping him to burp and settle temporarily.
Other things I’ve found that help:
Last night was the first night he didn’t cry too much. But it never fails—as soon as I say, “I think his colic is over,” we’ll have the worst night ever. So I’ll keep my expectations low and the colic drops handy.
Evan had major cradle cap at 5 weeks old. It started out as just dandruff, but eventually covered his whole head with a thick crusty layer of waxy puss. Shandis had mentioned to me that this organic shampoo totally cleared up Addison's cradle cap. So I bought it online to have on hand if Cole should get it. As soon as the white flakes appeared in Cole's dark black mane, I busted out the shampoo. It's called Lil' Sprout moisturizing shampoo by D'Organiques. Original Sprout 2 in 1 Baby Shampoo & Body Wash 12 Oz I still don't really know if Cole would have gotten it as bad as Evan, but if he would have, then this shampoo is his saving grace. It smells awesome anyway, and I feel good about using it on him instead of the Johnson and Johnson's head-to-toe that I used to mindlessly buy when it would go on sale at Longs.
Cole woke up with a bright red rash on his cheeks one morning--I suspected it was from all the cheese I ate the night before (Evan had a similar reaction to dairy at around the same age). But I didn't want to start using steroid creams on Cole like I did on Evan. That's when I remembered that a girl from Stroller Strides had told me about Weleda Calendula Baby Cream. She got it at Down-to-Earth, but I ended up finding it at Whole Foods and picking it up there. She said it's good for any rash and that it's the only thing that clears up her son's diaper rash. This is an all natural baby cream made in Switzerland. It contains Sweet Almond Oil, Beeswax and certified organic Calendula, which is the magic ingredient. No artificial preservatives, colors or fragrances. It cleared up the rash in about 2 applications.
At our friend’s daughter’s first birthday luau last Saturday, there was a lady doing facepainting on the kids by hand. She did it with such ease and speed that I thought she must be a professional painter or something. But she said, no, she just does this for a living. Her name is Lisa Starr Tong, Confetti’s Fabulous Face Painting, http://www.confettionthego.com / 754-6591. I got her business card to kick start my vendor-search for Cole’s first bday party, which is a mere 45 weeks away. Balloon Monsoon was there as well, and of course Evan asked for a spider. It was so cool-looking that he didn’t even care that it wasn’t red and blue. Http://www.balloonmonsoon.com / 455-3186
I walked into Green Time at Manoa Marketplace thinking it was a store full of environmentally-friendly products for tree hugging consumers. Wrong. It’s a misnomer—the ESL owners either aren’t aware of the implications of “green” in the modern English language, or it was a ploy to lure unsuspecting people like me in there. Anyway, their hot sellers are these cute plush animal rugs (brand is Bestever, made in China). Donna gave us a giraffe for Cole, which is what made me check out the store. He loves it.